Re-evaluating your relationships.

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Hello everyone. Hope you all are doing great.

So today guys we’re going to talk about re-evaluating the relationships in your life(🥁🥁🥁).

Please note that relationships include both romantic relationships and friendships

So this has been on my heart for a really long time but I guess I’m writing it now.

Relationships are good and can be bad depending on the type you’re in but that’s a topic for another post. A lot of us have so many “ships”(relationships) with different people that literally begin to affect us little by little without us even knowing because when you’re trying to keep up with so many people it gets really tiring because you’re just a person trying to match multiple personalities (so freaking exhausting) and the worst being if you care about the emotions of other people more than yours.

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There are a lot of insignificant relationships that are just there to bring us proper toxic and bad vibes and it’s high time we opened the door for them to kindly leave. There’s already a lot going on in the world, the last things we need are bad vibes from people. Some people need to go while some need to find their level at the bottom of your priority list. We need to stop giving so much energy and time to people that aren’t even worth it because they don’t even notice or value it. Focus on yourself first, know what you want and the kind of people you want(or need) in your life, the kind of vibes you want to have around you then just work from there. Too many hands spoil the soup just like too many friends can spoil you. The larger the crowd, the bigger the problems so cut down your crowd and just walk and be with people that make you happy, bring good vibes, love you, and want the best for you. Stay with people that make you want to be better and that understand you(very important). Don’t just let anyone into your life and give them a free pass to your heart, you have to guard your heart and be mindful of the people you give it to because giving your heart to someone who doesn’t rate you is like the worst thing ever because like the Bible said it’s like “giving pearls to pigs they’ll only trample them under their feet, and then turn and tear you to pieces”(Mathew 7:6)because they don’t know the value. So be wise!

Check the relationships you have with different people and filter out the ones that are vague because we don’t have time for bad vibes and unnecessary drama. #selfcareisapriority

I pray God filters the unnecessary relationships in our lives and gives us meaningful and solid relationships and also the strength to let go and the wisdom to know the good and the bad ones (Amen). I love you!!❤️❤️